Goddess, Every year we say, “This holiday season will be different.” But usually it becomes… – giving until we’re empty – carrying everyone’s emotions + expectations – hosting, coordinating, wrapping, performing …while our own pleasure gets boxed away with last year’s ornaments. Not this year. This year, we’re choosing: • soft instead of stressed • rested instead of rushed • receiving instead of over-giving • Pleasure. Before. Presents. And I’m inviting you into a space where we practice that...
3 days ago • 1 min read
Hey love, Let’s talk desire.Specifically: why yours didn’t “fade with age” — it just got buried under life. You know this already, but let me say it plainly:A turned-on woman is a problem… for every system that benefits from her being exhausted, humble, self-doubting, over-giving, and under-pleasured. But she’s also unstoppable.Magnetic.Fully alive.And when she remembers who the hell she is?The whole world shifts. So how do you get that woman back? Here’s the four-step blueprint I teach — the...
8 days ago • 2 min read
Hey love, Tell me if this sounds familiar: You wait to “feel in the mood” before you touch yourself.Before you say yes to intimacy.Before you allow yourself to even think about pleasure. And nine times out of ten… that mood never comes. Here’s the truth no one ever taught us: 👉 Desire doesn’t show up first. It shows up after. Your body doesn’t magically light up out of nowhere. Turn-on is responsive — it happens once you start engaging your senses, your breath, your body. Waiting to be “in...
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
The “sex ed” you got at 13? Garbage. Fear, shame, and a lot of silence about your actual body, your desire, and your pleasure. That silence wasn’t random. It was strategic. Patriarchy profits when women believe lies like: – You’re only worthy if you’re young, thin, and smooth – Your desire is dangerous or shameful – Your sexuality must be hidden or controlled The Pleasure Protocol is the antidote.It's the manual you should’ve been handed at puberty.Science + sensuality. Nervous system resets....
about 1 month ago • 1 min read
Goddess, I can’t hold it in anymore — today’s the day!!! You’ve heard me talk about the ache. The frustration. The years I spent wondering why my body betrayed me and my sex drive ghosted me. The way desire had flatlined, confidence tanked, and pleasure felt like a distant memory. thought this was just what happens after 40. But here’s the truth: I wasn’t broken.And neither are you. What I discovered is that your brain and body are built for turn-on—you just need a roadmap to get back there....
2 months ago • 2 min read
I get asked some version of this question all the time: “How did you go from turned-off, numb, and stuck in a 24-year marriage… …to TURNED-ON AF, alive in your body, and in the kind of relationship that melts you in the best way?” Here’s the truth: three years ago, I was a numb, exhausted 50-year-old woman—staring in the mirror wondering if I’d ever feel sexy, wanted, or alive again. Fast forward to today? I’m wetter, wilder, and more magnetic than I was in my 20s.I’ve got a love life that...
3 months ago • 1 min read
There was a stretch of time when I thought my sex drive had just… left the building. I wasn’t turned on. Wasn’t craving sex.And when I did try? It felt... flat. Mechanical. Like something I was “supposed” to enjoy but mostly just wanted to get over with. And I thought: Well, this is just what happens, right?This is what everyone says about getting older.Hormones shift. Vaginas dry up. Desire dwindles.Totally normal. Except… it’s not. That’s not the truth.That’s the conditioning. Because let’s...
3 months ago • 2 min read
Sister, Let’s not sugarcoat it. What’s happening in this country right now?It’s not normal. And it’s not okay. The fascist playbook is being followed line by chilling line — and if you’ve felt panicked, enraged, numb, or utterly exhausted, that makes sense. You’re not crazy. You’re not overreacting. You’re AWAKE. And here’s the trap I don’t want you to fall into: Thinking your only options are Tune it all out (because it’s “too much”), or Get swallowed by despair and doomscrolling. No,...
7 months ago • 2 min read
Hey beautiful, I’m opening up two spots for something I rarely offer anymore: Private, high-touch, deep-dive coaching with me. This isn’t a course. It’s not a strategy session. And it’s definitely not about “fixing” you. It’s for the woman who’s ready to COME ALIVE. The woman who’s done with performing and pleasing… and aching to feel like her full self again. The woman who secretly wonders: “What happened to the woman I used to be? The one who laughed too loud, danced barefoot in the...
7 months ago • 1 min read
Hey Reader, What if I told you that for one week only, you could experience the most sensual, liberating, and confidence-boosting space for women—completely FREE? Well, buckle up, because that’s exactly what’s happening. 🔥 For this week only, I’m giving you VIP access to The Pleasure Playground, my private community where women just like you are reclaiming their sensuality, confidence, and pleasure—without shame, guilt, or apology. 💋 What is The Pleasure Playground? It’s a sanctuary for women...
8 months ago • 1 min read