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The Pleasure Playground

I help women over 40 reconnect with their sensuality, pleasure, and body confidence. Let’s rewrite the relationship with your body—no more shame, just love, appreciation, and joy. Ready to reclaim your feminine power? Subscribe for inspiration, tools, and support.

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A better way to love your body this year 💖

Hey Reader - Last week, I shared my favorite ritual for starting the year: gratitude, desires, and a little movement to get turned on (did you try it? Let me know how it felt!). This week, I want to talk about something that’s been on my mind—and probably yours, too: our bodies. January is like a megaphone screaming at us to “fix” ourselves. Diet plans. Fitness apps. Ads telling us we need to lose weight, tone up, or shrink down to feel good. Honestly? It makes me want to throw my journal...

Hey Reader, What if I told you that for one week only, you could experience the most sensual, liberating, and confidence-boosting space for women—completely FREE? Well, buckle up, because that’s exactly what’s happening. 🔥 For this week only, I’m giving you VIP access to The Pleasure Playground, my private community where women just like you are reclaiming their sensuality, confidence, and pleasure—without shame, guilt, or apology. 💋 What is The Pleasure Playground? It’s a sanctuary for women...

Hey Gorgeous, I need to tell you something, and I need you to hear me with your whole body, not just your brain. You were never meant to be quiet, small, or contained.You were never meant to dim your radiance or apologize for your desires.You were never meant to feel disconnected from your own body, aching for something more but afraid to claim it. You’ve been taught to suppress your sensuality, to feel guilty for wanting pleasure, to believe that your sexiness has an expiration date. But...

Hey Sister, This morning, I caught myself standing in front of the mirror, falling into an old, familiar habit—picking myself apart. My belly. My thighs. The softness I’ve been taught to believe is “too much.” And then I stopped. I closed my eyes, placed my hand on my heart, and whispered, “Thank you.” Because this body? She has carried me through so much. She lets me hold my babies, dance barefoot in the kitchen, and soak in the sunshine on my skin. She deserves so much more than criticism....

Dear Reader, Let’s start with an uncomfortable truth: most of us don’t think about, let alone talk about, our vulvas. Or pussies. Or whatever word feels most right to you. And that silence? It’s not an accident. For centuries, we’ve been taught that this part of our bodies is shameful, secretive, even dangerous. But here’s the thing: your pussy is not a problem to solve or a mystery to lock away—it’s the source of your power, creativity, and joy. So, let me ask you: What’s your relationship...

Hey Reader, Can I tell you something? I hate New Year’s resolutions. All that “new year, new you” noise? It feels like pressure to “fix” myself instead of celebrating who I already am. Honestly, it’s exhausting—and it’s not for me. You know what feels way better? A ritual that’s about gratitude, rest, and tuning into my desires—not forcing myself into some “perfect” version of me. I started doing this a few years ago when I realized January just… isn’t my vibe. It’s still winter, a time for...

Hey Reader, Have you watched the BODY LOVE Masterclass replay yet? If not, what the heck are you waiting for? That body isn't going to love itself! 😜 And also... the replay is only available for another 24 hours! WATCH THE REPLAY It never fails to amaze us how much fear and resistance crops up for our clients and students when they get close to making an investment in themselves and their growth. It's like you KNOW you need, want, and will benefit from the investment... but something in your...

Reader, Imagine waking up tomorrow morning completely free of guilt, shame, and self-doubt. How AMAZING would that feel? How marvelous would it be to... LOVE your body, exactly as it is right now? feel comfortable asking for what you want/need in bed, in business, or ANY situation? make a shitload of $$ doing work that you truly enjoy? have a hot AF love life that is so satisfying and delicious that you NEVER need to fake another orgasm? wake up every morning feeling confident, sexy, and...

Reader, I don't know about you, but I believe that shame is the most uncomfortable of emotions. Shame makes us shrink (literally and metaphorically). It holds us hostage. It strangles our self-confidence and our natural enthusiasm for life. And worst of all, it keeps us PLAYING SMALL. I learned a LOT about shame during my first year of sobriety — and honestly, the lessons keep coming, because we live in a crazy world that has normalized the idea that there is something 'wrong' with us if we:...

Reader, If someone had told 22-year-old me that I would feel sexier, more confident, and more vibrantly alive at 52 (AND have a way hotter sex life) than I did thirty years prior, I probably would have laughed in their face. But that is my reality. And I would LOVE for it to become YOURS. Which is why my dear friend + sex & love coach, Barbara Katsnelson, and I are launching a brand-new, hot AF group coaching program called The Well-Fucked & Well-Paid Woman. We want ALL of our sisters to...